Start with onions.
She added a little water just to keep them from burning.
She's adding ghee, butter that she's already simmered with turmeric (for color) and fenugreek(for aroma).
Next is the secret spice to this dish: berbere. It's a combination of a lot of little amounts of spices like allspice, ginger, and black pepper, but it's mostly toasted and ground dried super hotchilis, salt and fenugreek.
"Not fast food, our food," said Asmeret Teklu, laughing a little.